they don't like it up them

"You know me too well " and "you remember everything, I can't get away with anything" are two expressions that tend to crop up just before the woman in my life declares that the man she was seeing who she insisted was just a friend has just become something more and she didn't see it coming and she's terribly sorry or that I'm a toxic man.

U see they don't like it uppem .(the accurate scrutiny)